Marriage

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Hello! I've always wanted to write about this but I never had the chance to/ or maybe I'm just denying to write about it. Today you'll know something new about me (maybe). I broke my heart a lot. I was vulnerable with my feelings because I wanted to feel needed. And I realised I was eating myself in and out. Anyway, my point is I've always wanted to rush to get married because I'm insecure. I didnt think it through. I just wanted to tie the knot A.S.A.P. However, last Thursday I received an email from EY(unknwon branch hehe) saying I passed the interview and they have accepted my intern application. yay! Alhamdulillah. Am so happy!!! 

Later then something just got into me. I start to realise that I have so many things coming up in my future and I felt like I don't need to rush marriage. When the time is right, it will come. The opportunity to work with EY had opened my eyes to my career field. I started to realise more of my possible potentials. 

When I think back, maybe I was just not confident with myself. Maybe marriage was my escape to my insecurities and everything. Luckily this changed my perspectives. I got this wave of love for myself. I don't know how to actually describe it but basically, I feel confident. I was rushing marriage for the wrong reasons. 

Thank you Allah. To get this internship wasn't an easy path. Some of my friends had it the easy way but somehow mine took 2 months, 3 phone calls and 1 interview haha. Alhamdulillah my effort and wait were all worth it! 

With that friends, think it through. Marriage may sound beautiful but get your intentions right before deciding it. 

Bye guys, be kind.

Regards,
Liyana


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